Hmmmm..
today is 26th of february 2010.one day to go to my cousin weddings.huhuh!so sad that i can't go back to her wedding.huhuhu..ToT.
Talking about wedding@marriage..My cousin is only 22 this year when she decided to end her single life with a good guy who is running a 'roti canai' stall. Actually, me myself quite shocked with her decision when she said that she want to stop her study and getting married as soon as possible.
For God sake!!have her lost her mind or what?? - that's what i said to myself when she said that to my mom. Then i said what i've been said to my mom. Guess what my mom said? She said something like this -
"Kakak, death and marriage has been decided by Allah since we were in heaven (means that before we were born)." -
A simple word yet made me thinking for weeks. Than I got what my mom tried to say to me - age is not a measurement for death and marriage to occurred. even babies could die in their own parents hand. Pity!! Even Wok (100++ years old lady in Terengganu) married with the 38 years old man. Goosebumps!- like old folks has said - just redha (accept) what Allah has fated for you.Everything has it own bad and good. If it bad, take it as a punishment for you,if that's good thing, just say Alhamdulillah. And,Imah, Selamat Pengantin Baru!!
another cerita (story)..
Why is people always lost their mind whenever they are in love with someone??As there are no one that as good as their lover?Always think like their lover is their world heaven - willing to do anything eventhough it might risky for them - like one scene in Titanic when the ship are about to sink, Rose rush to Jack and said,"You jump,I jump!" and lastly Jack died and Rose survive in that sad tragedy. quite stupid,for me.
For me, i think the most greatest love story that i've ever heard was the love story between our Nabi Muhammad s.a.w and his beloved wife, Siti Khadijah. Siti Khadijah was very loyal to Rasulullah s.a.w till her death. Rasulullah s.a.w never stopped his loves to Siti Khadijah even though she has passed away. That's what we call the Greatest Love ever. Salam Maulidur Rasul!
Love has many definitions. As far as i know, love is friendship.friendship is love.without friendship,love means nothing. Every love start with friendship. That's mean,friendship starts everything. No one falls in love without friendship first. But quite a few, married without love first. Just like my mama and abah, they do not each others till the time they got engaged. That was the first time they met each other. Then they began to grow their love when they are married. Alhamdulillah,their love has made they can celebrate their 22nd years anniversary past 2 days ago. Congrats Abah!Congrats Mama!May your love last forever!!Happy 22nd Anniversary!!
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